What you should do if you have gay or lesbian friends: Have a straight-forward chat about it with your friend or a trusted adult.
If you’re having a chat with someone else: Ask if it’s okay.
If it’s OK, have a good conversation about it.
If it’s not OK, be polite and be understanding.
If you’re gay or are talking about being gay, ask yourself if your conversation is about sex or being a good friend.
Do you want to be part of the conversation?
If so, don’t be shy about saying no.